November 3, 2011
"人前で話したり、初対面の人と話すとき、緊張してあがってしまうことがあります。

それは、

「うまく話せるかな」
「おかしなこと言ってしまったらどうしよう」

などと、意識が自分に向いているからです。

目的は「相手に伝えることだと考えれば、あがらなくなるのです。"

人生を変えるために「話し方」を変えなさい - ライフハックブログKo’s Style (via kirinomisuzu)

(Source: lidentity, via machida)

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